‘My special’ you ran a good race but that your race ended abruptly leaves me in total bewilderment. I have not been able to come to terms with your passing. What puzzles me most is the fact that only a few days to your passing we spoke and you gave me all the assurance that you were OK and that you were expecting Bryan and I. You said you will be delighted to see us; but you left without seeing us. If I could, I will ask God why He took you so soon.
Together with many others, we give thanks for your life on earth. You were awesome. The life you led will remain a model for many of us. Family meant everything to you; you were a champion of tolerance, reconciliation and forgiveness. Even in the depth of you sickness you still found time to go meet with your family. I cannot help but remember all the times we sat together in tête-à-tête conversations - you were always willing to make things right with everyone. I remember how you always said “it’s OK! Papa leav-am so! I no di vex again”. You were always willing to forgive and let-go. I hope anyone you might have wronged will forgive you so that you may rest in peace with the Lord. Even in death, you remain my Hero – my quiet giant. I miss you and I will forever miss you. You and I had assignments from dad. He said if you were not present, nothing takes place. What shall we do now that you will never be there physically? You’ve put me in a difficult situation. When I tried to refuse the assignment, you promised you will assist me. Now, what do I do?
Mama, rest in peace. Definitely you will. I know you will meet your husband, our dad and many other love ones who passed-on before. Please, say hello to them.
One last favour I like to ask from you is that as you rest with the Lord, please continue to intercede for us, especially for your kids; that we will all find the courage to mourn your passing and get the zeal and wisdom to carryon with life without your physical support. I miss you.